As the world continues to be filled with uncertainty, a small version of normalcy has returned for us here in Kansas. My [Josh] kids participate in several sports activities throughout the year. My 12 year old son Max enjoys playing shortstop and catcher for his baseball team. The coaches that pour into these kids’ lives are amazing. They volunteer their time to teach the game as well as lessons that the boys can take into many areas of their lives as they grow older.
Last week, the “Gladiators” had a game against a team that had beaten us badly the first game of the season. 16-2 bad. That game in June only lasted 3 innings and we were over-matched. The other team crushed the ball and we couldn’t stop anything they were doing. Our boys were discouraged, but not to the point that any of them wanted to give up. Throughout the next several weeks, I watched them get better. So we knew heading into a rematch of our 16-2 loss that this game was going to be different. What I didn’t know was that the umpire was going to have a profound impact on our boys – in a good way.
I won’t go into the details of the game, but let’s just say it was completely different than the first one. Our boys’ pitching, defense, and hitting were on a completely different level. Due to the absence of one of our coaches, I had the privilege of coaching 3rd base, so I got to see things up close and personal. I had some proud dad moments when Max made some great plays at shortstop, but honestly, all of the Gladiators really stepped up. The final score was a 6-4 loss, but everyone was so excited. It was the best the boys had played all season.
What came next filled my thoughts for days after the game. After a tip of the cap occurred between the two teams (no “good game” handshakes due to COVID), the umpire, a college-aged young man, came over to our coach and asked if he could have a moment to talk to our boys. We gathered together on the outfield grass and he spoke encouraging words over the team–individually and collectively. He pointed out Max’s play at shortstop, the way our pitcher performed, and many other individual moments. He also told us that he had not seen anyone play our opponent all season to that level of competition. They were undefeated and typically ran the score up on everyone. I was standing there and could see the Gladiators, one by one, being lifted up for what they had done the past few hours. It was a special moment and they were recognized for it, not just by their coaches and parents, but an outsider with a very unique perspective.
The umpire didn’t have to do that, but his decision to do so had a lasting impact on all of us who were there. So, why do I share this with you? That evening reminded me how important it is to be on the lookout for opportunities to have a lasting impact on those around me. Whether it is what we continue to build each day for our OWNx clients, or personal relationships I have in my life, having an impact on others is a vital component to our lives while we are here on this planet. It’s easy to get caught up in what is happening in our own lives. But having an impact beyond ourselves requires an intentional step into the uncomfortable, and I believe during this time especially, we can and should all go there together.
Josh McCleary – Co-Founder and COO